It's hard to describe how I've been feeling of late. I suppose you
never really realise how far you've come until you actually stop and
take stock. Or, in my case, when you feel like the path you are
travelling has suddenly turned into an escalator and you're walking up the down
side.
I have this panic - I look back and see
where I've been and I really don't want to go there again. It's so far
down yet so close. But the escalator is speeding up and I need to walk
twice as fast just to stay in the same place. But I'm getting exhausted
and I don't have the energy to keep going. So I sit down and slip slowly
back down the escalator until I have gathered up enough energy to walk
again. Yet the tired moments are coming thick and fast and after each
burst of walking I'm still finding myself a little bit further back than
I started.
I don't want to be this person. I don't want to be depressed.
I don't want to be in constant fear of the swirling vortex of darkness that's at the bottom of the escalator.
The
sad thing is that I thought I was getting better. I have been getting
better. Compared to this time last year I am doing much better. But now I
know what it's like to be mired in feelings of utter despair, the
fear of returning is added into the mix of feelings I'm experiencing.
I'm depressed.
That
doesn't mean I'm sad and it doesn't mean that I'm grumpy. If I could
'cheer up' I would - believe me. I wish I could 'cheer up'. I wish that I
didn't keep coming back to this place. This lonely, all-consuming place
that I hate.
As it is, I'm on that escalator and can't get off and can't stop.
J x
Don't worry. I'm behind you and I won't let you fall. :o)
ReplyDeleteI love you, mama. I'm so glad I've got you to lean on. Thank you. J :)
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